Dealing with Difficult Relationships

May 14, 2019

Dealing with Difficult Relationships

No one likes to deal with a difficult relationship.
Especially simply cutting it off is such
an easy thing to do.
No obligations.
No moral concerns.
Why putting ourselves in a more unsettling situation when we can just turn away and leave?

When we do try to work on the difficult relationships,
we then start to get unrealistic expectations.
Fix the problem.
Things should get better.
In the reality,
things mostly turn worse as soon as we start fixing them.

We are bound to confront ruptures.
We become uncomfortable with each other.
We can be defensive and vulnerable.
More problems probably come up more just because we start dealing with things.

The big lesson is,
things never return to the way they originally are.
That is probably the reality of relationships though.
Time is needed for connections to be built,
so as time is required for healing to occur.
Relationships are a learning journey in life.
Working on them do challenge
our values and comfort zones as who we are.
Perhaps we do have to go through them.

Relationships are never perfect.
But we grow together in them.

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